Decision : Wrong Or Right?

Is there anything such as a wrong or right decision? When you make a decision, do you think of the aftermath? How do we know whether the decision that we made is the correct one or not?
Personally, when we made a decision, there are no right or wrong in it. Every decision is neutral. It is just the same as buying a computer for study purpose but ended up as a tool for gaming. 
Give me a break when you said that your decision is right, your decision is wrong. Both are wrong. Both are right. Both are neutrals.
The answer is neither the first or latter, but the second latter.

What Do You Mean By I Don't Know When I Ask You Stuffs?

Whenever we told somebody that we are not fit for a solution, they will tell us that same old phrase again and again.
" I don't know "

Paradise barricaded in hell , it seems the phrase drastically grows and ranks first in the word chain. No mater how we look at it, the whole situation is a kick-ass one. When we ask, it means we truly don't know ; so what the heck do they mean by I don't know for every question and answer. When we asked them to decipher a thing, they will be doing it all the way round. It just isn't normal.
What I am trying to say here is that when we asked you a thing, it just isn't right to deny it it completely. Be more human ; so be more offensive like while tackling others' question. When I ask you stuffs, you can just pretend outright that you did tackle the question a few question and then speak out the phrase. I won't get mad, seriously I won't. Because, what important is, you regard me as a friend.

Seriously, I think that they did it all to save their time. They forfeit from answering our question and left us to waste while they went outright enjoying themselves. What else? They ran away from answering in order to prevent themselves from getting abashed and ashamed, failing in their attempt to attack our questions.
I meant that we should try to help out the others.
"Thee shan't be ashamed thou you shall fail in attempt to help me" paraphrased from my brain
We should do some brainstorming together to make the output bigger than the income .... and when I said brainstorming ; i meant brain-storm like this :

JK

When you lose do others gain :- When you gain do others lose

I put on my thinking cap quite some time and ;-

Is there really something like no pain no gain, no gain no pain? I heard a chauffeur in the news answered the reporter that he didn't want to claim higher position jobs even if he is eligible because it will only make others suffer, but, is it?

Everything is in balance, aren't they?

So, start discussing now. Thing is, when the chauffeur said that he won't escalate through his career is mainly because he is afraid that his promotion will only cause dissatisfaction among the co-workers. But, if he really is eligible and full of discipline and passion, it will never be a problem to lead others or take the lead role. Be persistent in fighting for own right and there will be a competition, a positive one to be on the safe spot. Be positive, don't go and hurt others purposely and feel the remorse if you did and apologize. It's that simple but is this world just for words alone? Actions speak louder than words. Remember or lose it. 

On the other hand, if the chauffeur did not climb the ladder of success in order to carve a smile on their faces, he would have done the right thing. Differ with each perspective, the chauffeur's action can really benefit others. He carved a smile and lessen one negative feeling. Thing is, how many of us would rather stick to bottom of the food chain and let others gain the upper hand in this wide world? This is like a one in a billion chance ; this is a small, small world. Plus, would the chauffeur regrets his action someday and claim all that should belong to him before and demanded it? These are all out of the brain's capability to decode the future.

That's why when I am the class representative, I told myself to swallow all critics and be a fully-fledged and responsible class representative. Easier said than done though, I found myself fuming at the works sometimes and nearly cried it out loud. Holy mackarel ! To make it short, we must know when to be persistent and when to be tolerable. To be tolerable, we must be less persistent. To be persistent, we must be less tolerable.

It balances each other. Balance is the key of life. When we lose, we gain and when we gain, we will lose.

This occurs naturally and most of us would never try to bother about it, which is a grave mistake.

Just remember, everything we do must be in balance. ^_^

TT

   

First Blog, First Year, First of Everything

Today is my first blogging day on this wall. Been a long time since I started blogging but it still is the same old business day after another. Don't know why, but the idea of kicking off the day with a blog write seems to put me into a great mood. Yeah, today I am writing this to express my boredom. Well, they did say that boredom killer is to express ourselves but I don't really go and open this blog to others just yet, though it's not cooped up but none of my friends have been able to snuff this blog out yet.

It did seem like a frightening day at college on the first day but as I step deeper, it gets warmer  (though not physically-the "air-cons"). Yeah, on my first college morning, I woke up at the crack of dawn but I still missed the bus and when I got on the bus, it was like the worst thing that can happen. Why? I don't know which station to stop at for me to go to TARC. This is scary but good thing that Justin, also heading for the same destination pointed me out there. Phew, I thought I was dead meat alright but I'm still able to keep my ass safe for now.
When I got into the college, I waited quite long. Then, I met up with Ho Yee Shen, a classmate of mine from the past and the future too. This is the black and white difference between INTI and TARC. I got some friends that I knew around here, unlike INTI. Just like that, one day slipped through, one week passed by and it is now my time to befriend the books again . Never gone, always close, even if I had to say goodbye, you always come back to me. Why? I hated you so why did you stand up to me again? No matter, I had to study with books again.

We got in class SN11E and I saw a lot of students there and all with brilliant aura of cleverness. Wow!
We kicked off with Malaysian studies and all those blabbering put me to sleep on the spot. Then, we had tutorials and started introducing ourselves. Even now, I regret myself for being so talkative in the class. I think this is the reason of the boy in my class, Amalen came up to me during our break and told me that I am the class representative for SN11E. I profusely declined the offer and said that the most I can do is the assistant. Instead, I was assassinated by most of the class's murderous gaze when our Biology lecturer mentioned the two words, Class Representative. All I can do is own up and until today, there are still some of them saying that I secured the position by volunteering myself. What The Hell?
But no matter, I will just be their class representative for one semester. That's all and the remarks and negative buffs, I will take it but only for one semester. Since I became the class representative, the money I lost till now amounts to almost a hundred but it is my lack of systematic plannings in Operation Collecting Money, acronym of O.C.M.
P.S : I made up this name only when I am writing ^_^
Plus, they were quite irritated at first when I don't know their name after asking for it almost three times already. Really, can't blame it all on me. The reason is simple, ratio. There are almost thirty students in the class and only one class representative. Ask yourself, who will remember the other party's name easier? Me or the thirty students. But, at there, I learn that we should not judge a person by the cover. There are two students in the class SN11E. Well, girls to be exact and believe me, they are really, really, really, really noisy chatterboxes. The names are Teh something and another one I don't know yet but it's simple to know really.
The Teh thingy brought a teddy bear with her and the other one is always with her. Chatterboxes as they are, they are like those spoilt brats that entered college to play at first glance but after I checked through everybody's report cards for errors, I saw that their results aren't those that you can attain through lame study attitudes. This amazed me alright. Pretty, chatterboxes and cleverness really did go together in them. As I am a newbie in Kuala Lumpur, all i can say for now is that they are rare breeds. Not that I am Jeanette isn't a rare breed but she was quite the study type .... well she can't read this anyway. What's the point of writing this.